Loving Imperfection

This is what my family looks on a perfect day.  It only happens once every few years, and it’s about as perfect as we can get.


The rest of the time, my family looks like this.  We are lucky to all be looking at the camera!  Usually one of us is missing (no Britta below), and we can’t seem to manage to look happy (or at least not mad) at the same time.


Someday when I’m 98 and in a nursing home (or hopefully living with one of my kids so they can wait on me hand and foot), I will still love those rare, so-called perfect family photos.  But I think I’m going to really love and miss the times that those crazy, goofy, imperfect family pictures represent.

I’m going to miss when Kelsey crossed her eyes in every single picture, even her beautiful Nutcracker photos.  No amount of scolding or bribing could get her to stop.

I’m going to love remembering when Britta stuck her tongue out in pictures.  Every. Single. Time.

I will miss when Blaise refused to stop giving people bunny ears.  I will probably even miss when Erica or Drake punched him because he wouldn’t stop with the freaking bunny ears.

All those pictures where Maren kept sticking her hand down my shirt, desperately begging to nurse?  I already miss those.

Those frustrating pictures of clinging, crying babies?  How about the nose-picking, bed head, hands-in-the-pants photos?  I will love them all.

Family isn’t about being perfect.  It’s about loving and laughing anyway.  I do not (and will not) measure my success by the amount of perfect moments I experience in life.  I will cherish the blessing of laughter amidst the chaos.

“…live in a manner worthy of the call you have received, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another through love, striving to preserve the unity of the spirit through the bond of peace.”  Ephesians 4:1-4

Hearts for Home Blog Hop
Perfection Pending
2014 Catholic Bloggers Link-Up Blitz

9 thoughts on “Loving Imperfection

  1. I love the candid ones too. ALthough, I do kind of wish my kids would TRY to look at the camera sometimes. We took some family photos not too long ago, and my 4 year old decided to have his own kind of fun. You can go to my about me page to see what I’m talking about. 🙂 Thanks for linking up again!


    • I will check it out. Most likely I am lying to myself that I like the weird, awkward family photos. 😉 Going to try for another family picture soon. If I can get the guts to do it.


  2. I am smiling and nodding as I think about the kooky pics we capture of our family when trying to get “good” family photos. In truth, all moments are good, aren’t they? may your family continue to be blessed and to bring you joy (and funny faces!)


Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s